THE HANDRIAN

A private fraternity for beautiful men.

Join a Private Club where you and other hot men get to choose who can join.

Celebrating male beauty with a-list hotties for the hottest private parties.

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What this fraternity is

You have probably been to an open-door party. You bought a ticket online and drove across town, and then you found nobody there you were attracted to. That happens because anyone who pays can walk in.

We believe that exclusive membership creates a better community that appreciates male beauty. Having a community selection process not only elevates the standards, but also accepts that there are a variety of beauty standards. Currently active frat brothers collectively decide together who joins. Only the hottest men will help select other men to join.

How you join the fraternity

All pledges must apply with current photos to be voted on. Once accepted, membership is free and lasts one year.

Application process

  1. I. Application requirements

    To apply, you must send three current shirtless photos including your face. No nudes. Check the guidelines on the application page.

  2. II. Voting process

    You must select your sexual position to be voted on by the other groups that do not have the same sexual position as you, i.e. tops and verse groups will vote on you, bottom applicants.

  3. III. Majority voting rules

    You simply need over 50% of current frat members’ votes to be accepted. Membership lasts a year before you must repeat the voting process again.

  4. IV. Sign up for parties

    Once accepted, you can buy your tickets for the parties. Tickets are limited, so register early!

Most men who apply do not get in.

We choose members on their looks, plain and simple. The men who get in are slim, toned or fit, and they have faces people remember. Applicants are not guaranteed admission into the fraternity.

How groups are divided

Groups are divided based on their position. Top, verse, bottom. You can only be in one group.

Groups actively vote on new applicants in other groups, but not of their own group. Tickets are limited and divided among the groups based on the average percentages above. This maintains a balanced number of participants for each event.

Sample voting ballot

Below is a sample voting ballot that voting members will see.

Hot or not? Do you want him?

You are rating bottoms and verse. 0 of 24 ballots cast

Press Y or N. Arrow keys work too.

Your photo will be anonymous. Neither you nor members will see who and how they voted. Admission to the group requires more than 50% of the votes.

Five bare-chested men standing close together in the dark, seen from the shoulders down: a slim man faces forward between broader, more muscular men.

The 11 commandments

  1. I. Do not tell anyone outside the fraternity who you saw in the house.

  2. II. All members must vote on new applicants they receive. Non-active members are removed after six months without voting.

  3. III. No phones and recording devices. Violators will be permanently banned from the fraternity.

  4. IV. Consent is required. Please respect each other. This includes clear head signals.

  5. V. Don't feel obligated to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. You are free to make new friends some evenings. You will always feel welcome and included.

  6. VI. Learn the names of the men you meet, because this is a fraternity and you will see them again.

  7. VII. This is a drug-free fraternity. Weed is allowed.

  8. VIII. New members are assigned a brother for their first evening. Assigned brothers welcome members and introduce them. They are the go-to for all concerns and questions.

  9. IX. The host has the final word in his own house. Arrive and leave quietly, because he has neighbors.

  10. X. All concerns must be raised with the brother or the organizer. We are a drama-free frat house. Be respectful of your brothers. You are all A-listers and know better.

  11. XI. Treat every man decently, because the members will remember it when you come up for your next vote.

One man's collarbones and the hollow of the throat between them.

Where your photographs go

You are handing strangers a picture of your face and your chest, so here is exactly where it goes.

Who sees them
Only fraternity members who vote will see your pictures once.
What we do to them first
When a fraternity member opens your picture, their own name is printed across pictures, to deter screenshots.
How long we keep them
We keep them for one year. Before it ends, you send new photos with the peace sign showing and the members vote on you again. If you do not, we delete your profile and your photos and keep your email address for our mailing list. Every email we send to that list lets you take yourself off it.

Apply

Most applications do not get through. If yours does not, you can apply again in 12 months.

If you are not voted in, we will tell you, but we will not tell you why. You are welcome to try again with new photos.

Which are you
Your three photographs

Membership is free and lasts 12 months, and then you apply again.

Read what we keep about you and how long we keep it.

The join of a man's neck, collarbone and shoulder.

Host a night

Our nights happen in private homes and spaces. If you have one and want to host a night, tell us below.